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| Yes that's me. Avoiding being swallowed up by hungry gods of industrial civilization can be a hard trick to pull off. |
I’m going to go a bit
autobiographical for a few posts in an attempt to explain something of my
background. If for no other reason, I aim to have my blog printed out and bound
and placed in an old wooden chest I recently bought, along with other accrued
photos, family trees and assorted genealogical paraphernalia in the hope that one
distant day it will be discovered in an dusty attic by my generational
offspring and they can cast their eyes over it and say “So that’s why old Grandpa
Jason acted the way he did.”
If you are those offspring: Hello!
Back to the story in hand – where was I?
Oh, yes: me. I am going to divide this narrative into three sections. The first
post could be subtitled: confessions of a reformed nihilist. For anyone who
knows me today as the mild-mannered, quietish, father of two, they might be in
for a surprise. Yes, it was true that I was quite a tearaway, but this isn’t
some kind of jokey brag. Instead, I want to make the point that I was basically
a good kid driven to bad things by a crazy system. And that same system is
driving ever more basically good people to do crazy things.
The second part will be a, ahem,
intellectual journey. I’ll talk about the all the books and other things which
have influenced my life over the years. The last part will expand on this,
although it will be more of a metaphysical retelling. Okay, here we go.
I was born in Preston, Lancashire, in the
north of England not too far from Liverpool in 1971. Don’t ask me anything about
Preston or Liverpool though because I only lived there as a baby and have no
memory of it at all.
My father was trained as a draughtsman and
was working his way up the ladder in the UK manufacturing industry. In those
days there were still plenty of car and car parts factories dotted around the
country, although the inexorable slide of deindustrialization had already begun
back then. My mother was trained as a secretary, although she didn’t go to work
until I was older. Instead she was what was known as a housewife, staying at
home to cook, clean and look after her new baby i.e. me. Both of my parents
were from working class backgrounds in Cheadle, near Manchester, in the north
of England, and as such they were thrifty, saved sensibly and would never dream
of buying anything they could not afford.
I have an older sibling, a sister. She is
ten years older than me and spent much of her childhood before I arrived living
in Ontario, Canada, which is where my family had emigrated to escape a
depressed and depressing Britain. Apparently there were two or three other
babies before me, but my mother miscarried in all cases. They had all but given
up when a new drug was developed to prevent miscarriages, thus making me a
product of modern medicine.
In Canada my father became one of those
immigrant landlords there, buying and doing up old houses, which he then rented
out. Apparently it didn’t end well and he warned me against thinking that
renting property was ‘easy money’. They moved back to England shortly before I
was born – if they hadn’t then I’d be writing this with a Canadian accent.
When I was three, the family moved to
Banbury, near Oxford. My father must have had a decent pay rise with his new
job because we moved into a fairly large detached house surrounded by gardens
on a road called Queensway. Banbury is a largish town, famed for the nursery
rhyme ‘Ride a cock horse to Banbury Cross to see a fine lady upon a white
horse.’ I started at the local primary school and spent two years there until
my parents removed me and sent me to a private prep school. I’m not sure why
they did this. I don’t remember disliking Queensway Primary School, but I do
remember my mother saying I was being bullied by the other kids. I don’t think
this was the case, instead I think it had more to do with my father’s nascent
aspirations for me.
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| The young me being forced to pretend to read a book and refusing to smile |
Prep school, it turned out, was a lot of
fun. The school was a converted stables out in the countryside and we had quite
a lot of freedom to roam around climbing trees, playing conkers and another
game which we invented that involved kicking a pebble into hole in the
playground. It was a very small school, with only about 100 kids ranging in age
from 6 to 13. The curriculum was easy and mostly involved two things: English
and singing. There were other subjects too, but singing was really the one
given the greatest priority. Oh, and Latin, which naturally led to singing in
Latin.
By going to this school my parents thought
they had been put on the conveyor belt to a higher social class. Indeed, my
friends all had interesting parents. One was a Tory MP. Another was a daredevil
salesman who flew around in his own plane and was credited with introducing
pepperoni pizzas to the UK (!) Another was the nephew of a (now disgraced) pop
star. And they went of holiday to far-flung places, such as Disney World in
America. I couldn’t compete with any of that, but that didn’t seem to bother
any of them.
I spent five blissful years at this school.
It was boys only, so I didn’t actually get to speak to any, you know, girls
until I was a teenager. Still, who needed girls? We had a lot of fun playing
football and rugby and cricket, stunt riding our BMXs on a track we had
actually built in a field next to the school, and playing Dungeons & Dragons
and Horror Top Trumps (until they were banned for being ‘satanic’ by the pious
probably-alcoholic Irish headmaster and his grossly obese wife). I thrived in this
environment, and was made Head Choir Boy (probably a role given even greater
authority and status than Head Boy, which was for squares). I didn’t realise
it, but this ‘preparatory school’ was doing nothing to prepare me for life ‘on
the outside’ and I’ve heard it since that there is no way such a school would
be allowed to operate these days, run for profit as it was by someone seemingly
without any teaching qualifications.
And then disaster struck. My father was
made redundant during a massive round of firing at Automotive Products (owned
by Lockheed Martin) where he worked. At the age of 12 we had to move away from
our cosy life in Banbury and follow my father to his new job, which was in
Wakefield, Yorkshire. I found myself pulled out of school in an instant and
literally packed off ‘up north’ to another life.
Now, looking at my family tree I know that
most of my ancestors come from Yorkshire. But as far as I was concerned I was a
southerner, bred, if not quite born. In
case anyone doesn’t know, there is quite a cultural divide between north and
south England which harks back to the times of the Danegeld and the subsequent
Norman Invasion. That’s the cultural chasm and I was about to be chucked into
it.
I’m not sure why anyone would send their
kids off to boarding school. In my case I think it was my father’s burning
ambition for me to be a success rearing its head again. In any case I was
dispatched to Queen Elizabeth Grammar School (QEGS) – a school that is routinely in
the top ten independent schools in the country, and a known pressure cooker. This
is where I first learned all about bullying, loneliness and all the rest of it.
To say I was desperately unhappy there would be an understatement. The
headmaster, whose house we actually lived in, had evidently not heard that the
Victorian era had ended. He walked around with a long black cape on, carried a cane
and often sent us out on gruelling cross country runs in sub-zero temperatures wearing
only skimpy shorts and tops.
Furthermore we had to wait on him, serving meals
to him and his selected ‘top boys’ in a system of subservience known as ‘fagging’.
Now fagging, in case you’re wondering, didn't involve that, and at least in this case didn’t stretch to anything more
than being a personal lackey of the older boys, who would have been around 17
or 18 years old. This being Yorkshire, the other boys made fun of my southern
accent and called me all sorts of names.
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| QEGS in Wakefield |
It was also a place of violence, with a
class war being raged within the actual school itself. Placed in an historical
context, Thatcher had recently come to power and was busy trying to break the
trade unions and beat the coal miners into submission. Many of the boys at my
school were the sons of coal miners, granted scholarships due to their brightness.
So when the great Miners’ Strike of 1984 kicked off, so did plenty of school
ground fights. Rich upper class kids
would name call the miners’ sons, which was normally not a good idea because
the miners’ sons tended to be much harder fighters. What’s more, the sons of
miners were even pitted (no pun intended) against one another, depending on
whether their father was a ‘scab’ or not (i.e. someone who had decided to break
the strike, for whatever reason). It was an ugly time.
Furthermore, the toilets were a no-go area
due to them being the hangout of smoking ‘top boys’ who would grab you by the
neck and shove your head in the bowl and flush. After this happened to me a
couple of times I became too scared to go near them and had to develop the
ability to ‘hold it in’ for a week at a time (I was sent home at weekend,
mercifully).
After a year of living a lifestyle akin to
that of an early 19th century lackey I had had about enough. Luckily
my parents had by now bought a house in Wakefield and I was able to move back
home. Ah the bliss! Also around this time one of the greatest things to happen
in my life occurred: personal computers began to appear in the shops.
I rapidly became obsessed with them. They
blotted out everything for me and I was able to escape into the world of
computers and ignore the elements of the real world that were not to my liking.
More specifically, I was obsessed with computer games – the more fantasy-oriented
the better. I used to design games in my head and then spend hours at night
lying in bed figuring out all of the details, and how I would code them. A few
of my friends were similarly obsessed and we began writing programs for our ZX Spectrums. At first they were in BASIC but, probably to show off, we moved onto
assembly language, machine code and even hexadecimal. I spent all my pocket
money on games (which came on tapes, uploaded torturously slowly via a tape
recorder), games magazines and hefty books about programming languages.
Although we didn’t realize it at the time,
this was probably the golden age of computer games in that it was eminently
possible to design, program and market your own game from start to finish – and
get rich in the process. Puny memory limitations (my spectrum had a 48k RAM
chip, and even that was fairly large by the standards of the day, although the
laptop I am typing this on is 83,000 times more powerful) made sure you had to
code tightly, and there was no room for huge, fast-moving graphics. My idols at
the time were Jeff Minter, who created such classics as Attack of the Mutant Camels, and Matthew Smith, the Bug Byte goth programmer who created Manic Miner and Jetset Willy.
Anyway, while I might have been able to
process computer code at the same level as a university degree undergraduate, the
rest of my academic abilities left a lot to be desired. I was, in fact, the
lowest out of 120 pupils in my year, academically speaking, and my father was
not happy. I was consistently getting single digit percentages in test scores
and the more trouble I got into over the more it became cemented in my mind
that I couldn’t achieve academic success and that there was something wrong
with me.
I was put out of my misery by yet another
move – although this time it was a case of ‘out of the frying pan and into the
fire’. My father, having lost his job yet again, found a new one at a train
factory in Birmingham, England’s second largest city. The good news was that I
was leaving Wakefield, but the bad news was that I was being sent to Solihull
School – a bastion of upper class privilege in a snooty satellite town.
The moment I turned up on the first day I
knew it was bad news. QEGS had been somewhat rough and violent (one of my
classmates who I went on a school trip to France with turned into a serial
killer in later life, killing women with a crossbow and then eating them. This was the second serial killer the school had produced, for some reason.) but Solihull School had a sinister feel about it.
With its
neatly trimmed lawns and its obsession with sporting prowess I knew right away
that I wasn’t going to fit in. Around this time my father bought a weight
lifting bench and weights and decided it was time to put some hairs on my
chest. He himself had lifted scrap metal around the back of the factory he
worked in as a young man, building himself up into something quite muscular –
and now he wanted me to do the same. I still remember all those Saturday
afternoons in the freezing garage as he made me pump iron, and got me to
perfect the ‘clean and jerk’.
One of the first things I was made to do at
this new school was decide whether I wanted to join the Army, Navy or Air
Force, or do community service. It was that kind of place – a feeder
institution for the upper echelons of the armed services. From my experience
with bullies in Wakefield I had learned that the best way to deal with them was
not to look like a target. Anyone doing community service, thus spending their
Wednesday afternoons dipping biscuits into tea with elderly ladies would be a
prime target, I reasoned. Joining the Air Force would mean I had to wear flares
(no way) and the Navy was full of boatey types who knew how to sail yachts. And
so, at 14, I joined the Army Cadets.
I was fitted for a uniform and assigned an
old First World War rifle from the school arsenal. Soon afterwards I learned
what being in the army was all about namely: looking perfect, marching and
being with psychopaths. Nobody had taught me how to tie my puttees properly or
wear my beret, so I got yelled at a few times by the barking NCOs. Punishment
for such infractions tended to involve running around a rugby field holding
your rifle above your head. And those rifles weren’t light.
After army training had finished every
Wednesday we were free to walk around town dressed in our combat fatigues
(sadly, though, without the rifles, which would have been handy). This was
quite appealing to me as I was vary scrawny in my younger days, but the local teenage
psychos from nearby schools tended not to mess with you if you were dressed to
kill. But the drawback of this was that
my fellow army heads decided that I had better undergo some initiations to see
what I was made of. That’s when I started getting into serious trouble.
Some of the minor infractions included
things like lobbing fireworks at houses and buying bottles of cider from the
off licence. Another thing was to pour Tippex thinner on your sleeve and inhale
it. The more you could inhale, the tougher you were. Unfortunately one of the
other boys had taken a dislike to me and told the teachers what I was up to. I
was caught with thinner and cigarettes in my pockets and promptly suspended
from school. My parents were devastated. What had they done to deserve this?
When I was allowed back to school again it
was only a few short months before I was in serious trouble again. Another ‘initiation’
was to commit a burglary at a nearby boarding school. It was easy – me and
another boy just walked in and ransacked the students’ possessions while they
were out doing sports. My ‘haul’ was £2, a can of Lynx deodorant and a new
format for playing music – a Boy George CD. I hated Boy George, but this shiny
metallic looking plastic disk was a marvel to behold and I examined it at
length in the privacy of my bedroom.
It didn’t take long before I was caught.
The very next day I was summoned to the sadistic headmaster’s office and
interrogated. He knew that I knew that he knew I was lying. As I got up to
leave something hit me in the back of the head and almost knocked me down. He
had literally thrown the book at me. “Sit down you moron,” he commanded. “Your
life is over.”
Later, when my sobbing mother came to
collect me, I made my escape when nobody was looking and ran away. My plan was
to walk to France and live as an itinerant tramp. It was an unrealistic plan.
In the end I spent the night shivering in a field with a horse barely three
miles from home. I went back the next day, starving hungry, and faced the
considerable music.
The police were involved and I was expelled
from school immediately. My punishment was to be shut in my room for several
weeks but after a couple of weeks in solitary I begged to be allowed to go and
visit a friend in Yorkshire and was allowed to do so. Bad idea. My friend had
become a punk. I wanted to be a punk too. I dyed my hair green, ripped my
clothes to shreds and started acting like Sid Vicious, my new role model.
Arriving back in Birmingham, my father was
less than impressed with my new look. It was the beginning of the end of good
relations with him – for the next 25 years, until his death earlier this year,
there was always a simmering hostility between us. He resented the fact that I
was refusing to conform to his view of how I should act, and he never got over
it.
After the expulsion debacle I was sent off
to a school for no-hopers and the sons of organised criminals in the centre of
Birmingham. It was the only place that would have me. I knew that I only had to
tough it out for another year and then I could leave school and get on with
being an unemployed and unemployable punk.
As before, I had learned to avoid the bullies by acting crazier than them.
Bullying is mostly psychological warfare, so by pretending to be psychotic, you
are robbing the bully of any power they might have over you.
In my case I head-butted things. Doors,
walls, other people - it didn’t matter what it was, I butted them all.
By now I
had spiked and bleached hair and a permanent bruise on my forehead. Bullies
took one look at me and decided to pick on someone else.
I began to get into trouble as a matter of
routine. Writing anarchic graffiti on buses, smoking cigarettes and dope,
drinking whisky in class, fighting in the park after dark (well, pretending to –
in most cases it was posturing and we ended up running away), carving an
anarchy symbol across my whole chest with a razor blade right before an inter
school swimming match – you name it, I was in trouble for it. I even got into a
fight in a Birmingham backstreet with a bunch of Zulus (football hooligans
following Birmingham City) who managed to knock me out, stab me through the
cheek and were in the process of kicking the crap out of me when I was rescued
by some security guards from an adjacent TV station who could see what was
going on. I was taken to hospital to be stitched up, and a rumour went around
the school that I was dead, making my subsequent resurrection something of a
talking event for all and sundry.
I might have been alive, but I was still an
academic dud, and the teachers told my parents there was little chance I would achieve
even a single ‘O’ Level, the next year. My report said ‘Jason stares into space
a lot and would probably prefer to do that all day long instead of doing his schoolwork.’
I didn’t care. I had been consumed by
nihilism. In my mind, the world I was supposed to be conforming to was a world
based of hypocrisy, greed and evil. I wanted no part of it and I figured that
the way things were I’d probably be dead by 40, and fully intended to go out
with a bang. I took to hanging around with my friends at the Mermaid pub in Birmingham’s
Sparkbrook district. The Mermaid was an institution beloved of punks and
skinheads. They would serve anyone, no matter how young, and every weekend the
walls reverberated violently to thrash metal and punk. I followed bands like
GBH, the Anti Nowhere League and Napalm Death (the lead singer of which went to
my school). I was an angry young man
alright.
The next year, when my exams finally came,
I did better than expected. I scraped four passes, although failed both Maths
and English. Still, it meant that I could join my friends at Solihull Sixth Form
College. And that’s exactly what I chose to do so, in no large part due to the
fact that my best friend at the time, Mark, managed to convince me that
throwing my life away was a bad idea. I was, throughout it all, still very
bookish, and there were certain things that appealed to me – especially the
idea of being an archaeologist or a computer games developer.
By now, my beleaguered father had given up
trying to fight me in terms of what I wanted to do. I chose what any snarling
punk would want to do as A Levels: English Literature, Classical Civilizations,
Computer Studies and French. As an olive branch to my father I agreed to study
Economics as well. I was sick of the hostilities and was feeling guilty about
bringing so much distress to my beloved mother. The reason I was allowed to
study so many subjects was because I re-sat Maths and English (getting an ‘A’
in the latter) and the college realized I might not be as stupid as my academic
record said I was.
After my stormy teenage years, being at college
was calm and placid. I disassociated myself from most of my troubled friends –
most of them were now working at McDonalds’ or for the big local employer Land
Rover. They were, I noted, remarkably quick to conform, get steady girlfriends
and grow beer guts.
I dropped Computer Studies in short order
when I realized how mind numbingly dull it was to actually study it in an
academic manner. I also dropped all the studded dog collars, winkle pickers and
other black leather gear I had been wearing, and conformed to type by wearing a
tweed jacket and blue jeans. I had my first proper girlfriends and actually
fell madly in love with one, Emma. We went around Europe together on trains,
and it was all terribly romantic.
It was during this time too that Mark told
me about an environmentalist called Jonathon Porritt who was coming to give a
talk in Birmingham one evening. He somehow knew I had an interest in these
things (although I can’t figure out how
when I try and recall) and took me along. The talk was riveting and I bought a
book from a stall at the entrance, which I asked Mr Porritt to sign for me. I
had a brief chat with him (although others were waiting in line) and by the end
of it I knew that herein lay the key to dismissing the nihilist feelings of angst
and hopelessness that had been eating me for so many years. For the first time
I had heard someone in a position of power (well, okay, he was Director of Friends of the Earth) lay out what the
core of our problems was. Here’s the kind of thing he was coming out with:
"I've learned that the fate of the world's indigenous people lies in the fate of us all. And the reason is very simple. At the heart of today's so-called 'environmental crisis' is something profound and disturbing. We are simply not at one with the world in which we live, we are not 'true dwellers in the land', and behave for the most part as if we were just uncaring itinerants hanging around until we've used everything up and then moving on."
The book was called Where on Earth are We Going? and it addressed many of the problems
that beset the industrial world such as pollution, global warming and our
unsustainable lifestyles. Jonathon Porritt, now Lord Porritt, went on to be a
sustainability advisor to Prince Charles, and is still a leading voice of
reason. I still have the book on my bookshelf with its inscription to me.
I’ll leave it at that for this post. In the
next one I’ll talk about being plunged back into uncertainly again as I flee
the family home Dick Whittington style, only to find the streets on London lined
not with gold, but kebab shops and shady pubs.
About
that chest. It’s currently sat on the floor beside
me as I type these words. It’s a huge pine one of the type known as a marriage
trunk, which would have accompanied the bride during her wedding and been
stuffed full of all the sorts of tools, fabrics and ornaments accrued by her
loving parents for her to take with her in married life.
When I say huge, it
really is – you could probably fit about four huskies in it, or maybe a teenage
rhino. It’s light blue with a depiction of flowers painted on the front in what
is known as ‘naïve folk art’. We bought it for 300kr (about $50) online, with
the seller saying that if we didn’t pick it up that day he was taking it to the
dump. It is about 200 years old and in almost perfect condition (but missing
the key).
Antique furniture is a niche that my wife
is moving into. As a skilled upholsterer with a City and Guilds education from
England, she has found her skills unmarketable in Denmark. Here, people buy
stuff new from Ikea, and then when they are finished with it after a handful of
years they throw it away and buy new again. Occasionally they will inherit
something finely crafted from a dead parent and they will make a funny ‘yeuch’
face and either throw it away or sell it for a pittance on Denmark’s version of
eBay.
That’s where we come in. In the last few
weeks alone we have bought three antique chests, a wall mounted display
cabinet, a 18th century ‘Queen Ann’ chair (pictured a couple of
posts back being transported on my new cargo bike), a solid mint-condition
L.Lange Danish antique cast iron woodburner weighing almost 200kg and,
yesterday, three solid rosewood chairs from the time of King Christian VIII of
Denmark. There have also been a few knick knacks, such as a rye bread slicer
from the 19th century and some stoneware, and copper kettles. In
total the price we have paid for all this is about the same as you would pay
for the new iPad that everyone is talking about.
[Note to descendents: an iPad was a flat device
with a screen on it. On the screen you could manipulate images and text using
your fingers and they had all sorts of applications. They could store music and
books and you could watch films on them and chat to your friends through the
Internet. People found them endlessly diverting, but given that they require
colossal amounts of energy to manufacture and a vast range of government subsidized
high-tech industries to support them I doubt they will still be around by the
time you read this. You might find one in a museum, if you’re interested.]
My point with the above is that due to
these incredible finds (and hundreds more like it, though we don’t have the
space) my wife has finally plucked up the courage to quit her terrible job. She
has spent the last five years cleaning council properties, such as schools, old
people’s homes and the public toilets down at the beach. After five long years
of working with a small army of similarly downtrodden people, most of them
immigrants with degrees (one of her fellow bowl scrubbers used to be the editor
of a popular anti-regime newspaper in Iran, but had to flee for his life) she
can now call herself an antique furniture restorer and dealer, which certainly
sounds better at dinner parties than ‘mop woman’.
